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CHRISTENA
BOLETTA ANDERSON ALLRED Written
by Elizabeth Elmira Allred Aiken Our mother Stena Anderson
Allred was one of ten children born to Jens Christian Anderson and Margaret Christiansen.
Mother was the third child and was born February 18, 1854.
She and her brothers and
sisters were born in a time and under circumstances which demanded much of
each of them, but they possessed the spirit and strength that was needed to
meet the trials of their day. Stena
was a year old when her father and mother joined the LDS Church and only three
when they left for “Zion” in April 1857. They sailed eleven weeks
and five days on the ocean, from there traveled to Philadelphia where they
took a rail to Iowa City. Here
their family as provided with hand carts for their trek across the plains
under the Captain Christian Christiansen Company. (Father of Margaret
Christiansen Anderson?) There
were 330 in the company, 68 hand carts, 3 wagons, and 10 mules which were
provided to carry the sick. The
company left Florence, Nebraska in July 1857.
Stena’s older brother Louritz Peter, who was eight years old, walked
the entire distance to Salt Lake City with the
exception of a day and a half. Stena
was pulled in a handcart. Stena’s
mother Margaret was stricken with mountain fever and had to be taken ahead,
leaving Stena’s grandmother (our great grandmother, Johanna Marie
Christiansen) to care for Margaret’s family.
This included four children eight years and younger. They arrived in the Great Salt Lake Basin September 13 of
that same year. Although Stena
was very young when she made this journey and was a tiny framed person, she
met her pioneer existence with faith and courage. Stena’s father, Jens
Christian Anderson, was often called by church authorities to move form one
pioneer settlement to another; thus helping to settle this great western
wilderness. Stena was very young
but she would go with her father to each new location to cook and keep house
for him until preparations were made so the rest of the family might join
them. They eventually settled in
Spring City. As a very young girl,
Stena learned how to sew, knit, weave, and cook as well as work at hard labor
in the fields. All of this was
necessary to help their family earn a livelihood.
She often told how she gleaned wheat to trade for flour that sold for
five dollars a sack. She also did
house hold work in other homes. At
one time she worked in the home of apostle Orson Hyde she lived in
Spring City, Utah. In those days furniture wasn’t painted; cupboards,
washstand, chairs, floors and etc. were scrubbed white with sand.
Because wh did this so well, Apostle Hyde commended mother for being a
good worker. She did her work so
well she never once had to be corrected by her employer. She married very young,
just two months short of her seventeenth birthday.
Her young husband James Tilman Sanford Allred Jr. was the same age.
Both of them understood responsibility and had been brought up by
parents who had taught them well the lesson of hard work.
They were married December 19, 1870.
Together with two other couples, they made their journey from Spring
City to Salt Lake City (a distance of one hundred and nine miles) in that cold
winter by wagon so they might receive the blessing of being married in the
Endowment house. They were married by Daniel H. Wells. Mother said despite the conditions they had a wonderful time. Stena and Tilman moved
into one of the rooms in the home of Tilman’s father, James Tilman Sanford
Allred. They stayed only as long
as it took them to build their own little log house.
This home consisted of two rooms; one large room 15 x 16 feet and a
small slant roofed kitchen, not more than 12 feet wide.
In this small home their six oldest children were born.
The two younger children were born in a two story home built on the
same lot. It was in those homes that Stena spent seventy years of her
life. During their early married
life they encountered many hardships. For
many years they lived in fear of Indians. Chief Black Hawk and his warriors caused great threat to life
and property to settlers during that time in Sanpete and Sevier counties.
The first one to spot Indians would race to the fort to ring a bell to
call the settlers in where they would gather at the old meeting house.
It was necessary to keep a constant guard on alert for Indian attacks
and Tilman stood guard many times lest the Indians would take everyone by
surprise. On August 11, 1902, father
Tilman died in Mt. View, Canada where he had gone to see his son and our
brother Q. who had moved his family there.
This left Stena with a young family to raise; she had all she could do
to keep her family properly fed and clothed.
To her children she imparted a sense of industry, thrift and a dislike
for waste of any kind. She had
very little and understood that nothing could be wasted this same sense of
frugal care has been carried on by her family throughout their lives. No one can ever recall
seeing Stena sit idle. (It was
said of her that she would rather dig a hole and fill it up again than do
nothing.) During her life there were very few conveniences.
In the winter season water had to be carried form a creek two blocks
away. Always she made her own
soap, milked cows, and made cottage cheese and butter. In her home she did all of her own sewing and taught her
daughters to do likewise, besides making her own carpets, quilts, and rugs.
Very few could excel her skill with a needle.
Whatever she did she did well. In
those days few were laid away without her assisting in preparing some of the
burial clothing. Throughout her long and
useful life of nearly ninety four years she never had three months of formal
schooling; yet she was very good at spelling and arithmetic as well as
receiving much joy from reading. Mother studied the scriptures continually and
very often referred to them in her conversations. Her two favorite topics were religion and politics.
For forty three years she did her duty as a Relief Society teacher, she
was always punctual to church, and kept the Sabbath.
She was also a charter member of Canal Creek Daughters of the Utah
Pioneers. It is hard to think of any
womanly virtue Stena did not possess. She
was always considerate of family, friends and neighbors.
She never took pleasure in repeating gossip about anyone.
Her most dominate trait was her self reliance and independence, often
sacrificing her wants and needs for the pleasure of others.
If she had any faults they weren’t serious ones. Above all she loved her
parents, her brothers and sisters and she was always loyal to them.
Several of her nieces and nephews have said she was the best aunt they
had. She didn’t boast of her
children’s achievements, but if they made right choices she always expressed
her pleasure in them and showed her motherly pride. When Stena’s children
married and had children of their own, she was always there for them in times of
sickness or trouble and knew just what to do.
The long years of caring for her ailing husband and raising children had
taught her how to be helpful, kind and gentle and how to relieve pain and
distress. Stena enjoyed good health
but she was left a widow at age forty eight; the year after her husband’s
death, her son Oliver died at the age of twenty one.
Two deaths in her beloved family so near each other left her with a great
loneliness in her life she never overcame. When her last two “little girls” as she called them
married and moved away, she was alone in a large, lonely house. She tore the big old family home down and with the help of
her children built a small, comfortable three room house in it’s place.
Stena was independent and lived practically alone for the next fourteen
years, from 1923 to 1937. After this time she spent short visits with each of her
children who enjoyed having her in their home.
She would sometimes feel bad when her age prevented her from doing the
things that had kept her so busy in her former years; but until she turned
eighty-five, she walked two or three miles every day. While Stena was away on a
family visit her home was struck by lightning and would have burned down except
for the quick action of her son-in-law Frances Madsen.
But much of the family record she had been compiling was destroyed. In 1945 a family reunion was held at Liberty Park.
Stena’s children all came, also her grandchildren and great
grandchildren. There were forty
present. That was the last
her family was all together. While living with her
daughter Clarissa in 1944, Stena had a slight stroke but recovered and came in
March of that year to stay with daughter Myra.
In June she went to son Q’s home in Clearfield, then from there to
daughter Myrtle’s in Evanston, Wyoming. In
September 1946, she fell and broke her right hip and was hospitalized in the
Salt Lake General Hospital until November. She returned to Myra’s but was not able to walk without
assistance; she was anxious to go by herself so one night she tried to get out
of bed and fell again. This time
she broke her left hip and had to be taken to the hospital again and remained
there from February 25, 1947 until January 5, 1948 when she passed away on
Monday morning at three twenty. Stena was buried in Spring
City beside her husband. Funeral
services were held Thursday January 8, 1948; Bishop Ernest B. Terry conducted,
opening prayer by Floyd Draper, speakers included Vanda Peterson, Enid Baxter,
James Blain and Ernest Terry. Benediction John Peterson. [Taken from family history
book, “From Allred to Allred” put together by Venna Severance] |
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